Who is the best tantric male masseuse in London?
A lot of people think grabbing some hand cream or body lotion would do just fine for a massage in London, or worse (shudder) doing a “dry” London massage. If you want this erotic massage to actually reach the erotic point, you need real massage oil; something that will absorb a bit into the skin, soften it, but also allow you to keep smooth, steady movements with your massage.
You also want your massage oil to be something that you use only for erotic massage in London. You want to get to the point where you can take a whiff of the oil and have your body ready to rumble. You want to walk into the room the next day, catch the merest leftover scent of the massage oil, and smile at the memory of what you did in that room the night before. You want to put one small drop of that massage oil behind your ear, so that when you and your partner are out on the town, at a party or a business meeting, maybe in a London restaurant, he’ll catch the scent as it wafts past him, and drive him insane until he can get you alone. The lubriderm cream is not going to do that for you!
But let’s back up a bit here, take a step back and look at the bigger picture.
Oils and aromatherapy have been around for a long time. Just look in the Bible. Remember when Mary Magdalene anointed Jesus’ feet? Not only was she applying essential oils, but was doing so through massage. Mary knew the power of massage around London. It’s a way to relax, relieve stress, show interest, and “rev the motor”, so to speak.
Sexy Massage for London Women
You don't need to be a specialist in performing the massages. All you need to do is learn some fundamental techniques built upon that to obtain the pleasure from your partner. Erotic massage is just about mastering the correct hand and body movements and then improvising as you move on.
Mastering the basic erotic massage techniques can help people in conquering their inhibitions and prevail over the discontent that often sets in sexual relations, especially after some period of time. Moreover, the hectic lifestyles also wreck sexual lives of many people. To overcome the feelings of dissatisfaction and displeasure you must be open to the idea of experimentation. Apart from stimulating your partner, you can use erotic massage on yourself by touching the body parts that arouse the senses at your own leisure and for your individual pleasure. It is suggested for men as well as women. All you need is to create a sensual atmosphere and have a liberal approach when it comes to enjoying the splendor of the human body.
Erotic massage when executed properly can provide the exotic experience that will lead to orgasmic joy and also help you to relax individually, or with your knowledge. You don't need any exterior stimulator in order to perform this massage, and it is equally enjoyable to give or receive one.
You will need a firm, plane surface while executing the touches that need to be sensual and warm in order to build up to a climax within your body and to attain the ultimate peace and pleasure during the session. While focusing on your sexual points, you are required to maintain the tempo and be steady before allowing yourself to experience the eventual excitement.
Men, mostly like the verbal exchange while undergoing an erotic massage session, but some may respond to a non-verbal session just as well. Women are more likely to respond better when the massage is performed on their G-spot, also referred to as clitoral massage, which when executed correctly can lead to multiple orgasms.
Erotic massage can be given to partners belonging to same sex as well as the opposite sex and can be equally arousing in both the instances. However, it is important that you pay attention to needs of your partner as well. Taking care of your partner's urges will help you to enjoy the pleasures provided by an erotic massage.
Erotic Massage For London Ladies
Pick a lifestyle any lifestyle, go ahead, I won't peek! Without knowing who you are or where you live and without knowing another single fact about you, I'm prepared to wager that for you, there just aren't enough hours in the day, whatever your circumstances are.
Again, I'll wager that you have too much to do and not nearly enough time to do it in. OK, it doesn't take a rocket scientist to work that one out because I know I've chosen a very popular theme, one that affects, well... almost everyone.
Between work commitments and family commitments, it's incredibly easy to lose yourself and your own identity in the pursuit of looking after others.
Allow yourself to imagine, just for a minute, that you pay the same attention to your own needs that you do for others. If you really gave this a go, you would quickly see a brighter picture. You may not be immediately aware of the benefits, but trust me, setting aside a little time for yourself has benefits you just wouldn't believe.
Your hands are a masterpiece of design and they're an evolutionary triumph. It would be a shame not to use them. Your own hands have an intimate knowledge of the face that you display to the world.
For most of us, putting ourselves first is an unthinkable luxury which is an idea that is quickly discarded. My advice is not to be too hasty. Don't beat yourself for putting yourself first. It'll put you in a much better position to help and coach others.
Have a good think about massage though because if you look great there's more than a good chance that you'll feel great too and from there, the possibilities are endless.
In the meantime I wish you continued outstanding health.
Copyright (c) 2007 Sam Benton
London Tantric Massage For Women
I remember the first time I gave a hot, erotic massage to a woman. I was quite young a the time and really nervous, almost overwhelmed when she took off her top and lay on the sofa. She was a little shy, so she lay on her front and I can still remember how her body jumped when I put my hands on her. I was really out of my comfort zone too and my hands started shaking as my fingers made contact with her bare back. Thanks to my older friends, I kept assuming that soon she would be overcome by lust and jump on me. Almost half an hour later, she put her top on and I took her to the station.
The whole walk I was wondering where I'd gone wrong, after all I'd done everything right, hadn't I? It was then that I decided to ask for advice from one of my more knowledgeable friends. I'd barely got through half of my description before he looked at me in disbelief and said,
"What? You didn't you lick her neck or back or anything?!?"
The point my friend had made was an awesome one: there is a world of difference separating an enjoyable back-rub from a hot, erotic massage!
Erotic Massage Techniques
So what actually is the difference? In fact the techniques used in both the back rub and the hot, erotic massage are similar. The key difference is your attitude. While a non-erotic massage requires technique, a hot, erotic massage with no technique whatsoever can still be a success if it makes the receiver feel more sexual afterward.
The reason I went so badly wrong all those years ago was because I forgot that the main purpose of a hot, erotic massage was the same as any other kind of foreplay: to give her a taster of what sex with me was going to be like. If you successfully show her that you can tease her and know all the right spots then she will know that you will probably be a great lover.
This is the other key to these kinds of massages, because it is a form of foreplay you will want to use the same techniques that you would use if you were giving any other kind of foreplay:
* Tease using touches that barely touch her, just brush her with the lightest touch. You want to make her want you to touch her more.
* Bring your hand close to an erogenous zone, but then move your hand over it without touching. This break with what she is expecting will get her tingling with anticipation.
* Look for area that have a lot of sensation. Any area that has a large amount of nerve endings will feel great when you touch it. The whole length of the spine, the armpits, sides of the breasts and neck all will feel great.
* Her breasts and clitoris can be touched either when she least expects it or by slowly building up to it. The tease is as important as the touch in this instance.
* Making slow circles that get smaller and smaller, moving in towards her nipple or clitoris is a great way to keep the touch up and tease her.
* Show her your oral technique by sucking, licking and gently biting her spine or the sensitive part of her neck. This should be a hint of what is to come and should use most of the same techniques.
The Not-Erotic Massage Techniques Section
While technique is not so important, it is worthwhile knowing some of the basic massage techniques. Any of these, if done with enough skill, can easily become hot and erotic too. Women love a guy who is dexterous!
1. Your hands are rough and her skin is really soft. Simple equation: rough on soft equals pain! Therefore you can make things infinitely better for her by simply using a lot of oil or lotion on your hands. Select a good, nice-smelling one for bonus points.
2. Look for what she responds best to and then use those areas to punctuate the massage (Usually the neck and shoulders)
3. You can probably touch her harder than you would expect, but make sure that you only touch muscle as a firm touch on bone is agony!
And that is basically it. Once a woman knows that even your massages get her excited, you will soon find that you can turn the massage into great foreplay that will make her want to jump on you.